"There's no combination of words I could put on the back of a postcard... No song I could sing... But I can try for your heart...Our dreams, and they are made out of real things... Like a, shoebox of photographs... With sepiatone loving... Love is the answer, At least for most of the questions in my heart... Like why are we here? And where do we go? And how come it's so hard? It's not always easy and... Sometimes life can be deceiving... I'll tell you one thing its always better when we're together..."
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"If You're Going.....to San Franciso"


Ahh, San Fran ~ such a refreshing experience.  Being an Arizona Native, I've always associated California with two main things; San Diego and Disneyland. Sure I've traveled other places in California; Hollywood, Long Beach, Sacramento, Carlsbad, La Jolla and so on, but nothing really stands out to me as much as San Francisco does.

   It wasn't until Trevor Starr (my brother in law) was brought into my life that I was able to experience all the super swell things the Bay Area has to offer.

This was my second trip to San Fran, and Justin's third.  During my first trip in 2007 (along with Justin, and my Mother In-law Barbara) we covered a lot of ground and delighted in many experiences such as; Coit Tower, Ferry Building Marketplace and Famers' Market, Golden Gate Bridge, Chinatown, Japanese Tea Garden, Union Square, Palace of Fine Arts (Exploratorium), plus a road trip to Napa Valley (my favorite!). 


Trevor lives in Berekely, so we stayed at Trevor's place practically right on Berkeley's Campus.  We also got to experience some Berkeley's highlights including; Trevor's Lab at Berekely, Berkeley Rose Garden, The BART, Telegraph Avenue.  We have so many amazing memories from that trip that I will always cherish.

Justin went out a second time in 2008 for Trevor's Graduation.  I unfortunately, could not attend due to work... but Justin, Barbara, and Shannon were able to fly out and watch Trevor Graduation with his P.H.D. in Microbiology.  They had a wonderful time celebrating Trevor and his accomplishments.

So this time around we were experienced San Fran Pros, and already had an idea of the locations we wanted to visit and revisit. 


 It's a short flight over from Phoenix to Oakland Airport, you would think it would be pretty smooth sailing...umm nope, our travel experience there and back was almost comical.  For starters, after arriving at Sky Harbor airport we realized that, 1.) our flight was delayed THREE hours and 2.) we had an overlay in Ontario, California ~ what in the world?  Oh well, we were on vacation so we didn't really care.  After landing in Ontario we discovered that we were the only ones on the flight to the Oakland Airport. 

So, we had a very romantic private flight into San Fran (well, technically Oakland)
Which resulted in this lovely photograph....


Then, once we arrived at our destination, we found out Justin's suitcase was missing... uggh.  Trevor had to go pick it up at the airport the following evening.  

The next day Trevor had to work so Justin and I spent the entire day in San Francisco, just the two of us.  It was really an awesome day!  After a quick breakfast in Berkeley (that's where Trevor still lives, right next to campus) the two of us caught the BART (Bay Area Rapid Trasportation) which was quite hilarious as we had know idea where to go~ but finally Justin got us into San Fran. 

Next up, was riding the Cable Cars.  I've always wanted to do this, don't ask me why.  We hadn't been able to this last time ~ so this time Justin promised we would.


So we waited in line, and waited, and waited a little bit more ~while being entertained by the street performers.

Finally it was our turn, jumping on the trolley was totally intimidating~ it was all hurry hurry, hustle bustle. So we were seated on the trolley traveling towards the Piers. Then a few passengers got off, and we were able to stand up, which made the experience so much better ~ it was a total trip!

Our car dropped us off right at Fisherman's Warf, where we walked around and enjoyed the cool weather... it was so breezy down by the water Justin had to buy a classic "tourist" sweatshirt (remember at this point he still had no clothes, thank you Southwest Airlines). 


We enjoyed some tasty treats at a darling little outside bistro.  We sipped on martinis called "Summer of Love" and I toasted to us, and reminded Justin that this was our "Summer of Love".  He thinks I'm cute ~thankfully...it makes up for my quirkiness.


We then continued to walk down the hill through Fisherman's Warf, past the Sea Lions, all the way out to the end of Pier 39.  Enjoyed a few sake bombers, enjoyed all the glorious smells of funnel cakes, watched talented pastry chefs created crepes through the window, and had our fortunes told. (this was my Tom Hanks, "Big" Moment).

We then walked all the way up the hill, trying to find a bathroom. We walked and walked and walked, still no luck, every restaurant had signs outside stating you had to be a patron to use the potty (must be a big thing around here)... finally we found a hotel, and not a moment too soon.

I had one more "to do" on my invisible list... I really wanted to walk/drive down the infamous Lombard Street. We were so beat by this time we didn't think we could walk it, so Justin called a cab to take us back to the BART station. While waiting for Justin outside, I had my "Pretty Woman" moment of the trip when a beautiful black town car pulled up and asked if he could take us somewhere. At first I told him no thank you that we had a cab coming. And then the light bulb went on, "Would you be able to drive us down Lombard Street on the way to the station"? He giggled in a foreign accent...
"But of course". 



So when Justin finally returned outside I was waiting in the town car... he looked at me puzzled and I said "just get in and enjoy the ride". 

Lombard is known as San Francisco's "Crookedest" Street.  Darling little homes and gorgeous flower bed are along each side of the road.  

To me it was like a disneyland ride, but in "real life".  Justin just shook his head and smiled.  Here's another photo, to give you a better idea:
Following our Lombard Experience, we caught the BART back to Berkeley and grabbed a bite of Thai food on the way home, watched the Best of Will Ferrell on Netflix and crashed.

The next day we hit up one of Trevor's suggested breakfast spots, the Crepvine and enjoyed eating breakfast outside
(never something you can do in AZ during the summer). 
It was so nice to see all the fresh flowers and cool architecture of downtown Berkeley. 
We grabbed some coffee on our walk in this quaint little coffee shop next to the Berkeley Campus, the barista made these cute little "his and her" faces in our lattes.

Next up, Trevor and Isis picked us up to go to the Golden Gate Bridge.  We had gone once before but it was really windy and bone chilling cold, and we were really far away (from the bridge).  This time, not only was it a gorgeous day, we also walked on the bridge.

I don't know what it is, but I find the Golden Gate Bridge so enchanting.  It's really quite a beautiful site to see.  

Once we were up on the bridge I realized it's a lot wider than I imagined it to be.  It was breezy and there were great views of San Franciso and Alcatraz Island.

There were tons of locks attached to the bridge, I was so curious as to what they represented, Justin later looked it up for me and discovered that they are considered to be "Locks of Love". 
It's rumored that this tradition started in Paris, and for decades now a custom that has slowly been creeping across the world whereby loving, romantic, and sometimes superstitious couples write messages on the padlocks, attach them to certain landmarks and then throw the key into the water.
This practice symbolizes the couple's unending love for each other, and in some countries is thought to bring good luck to a relationship.  (it's better than a tattoo right?)

Then off to the beach we went!  Isis and Trevor had packed sandwiches and a blanket, so we had a beach side little picnic. 


We took a long walk on the beach....Justin tried hard but failed at saving a crabs life. 


We ended the evening with a home cooked dinner at Isis' apartment in Oakland.  This is the view from her living room window.  She lives a few steps away from Lake Merrit ~ this gorgeous lake that is home to flocks of migrating ducks, herons, and geese.


The next day was the BBQ. Trevor and Isis had many friends over to enjoy tons of yummy food, beverages, and good company.  


It was great to meet several of Trevor's friends.  There were endless desserts and even a mojito station~that might I add, is a challenge to make one just right, takes practice.


Justin was Grill Master the majority of the time, which I think he enjoyed thoroughly. 


It was so awesome to see Trevor having such a great time with all of his friends.


The next day (our last day) we had some time to enjoy before catching our flight.  So we had breakfast with Trevor and walked around campus.  Trevor showed us his new lab~ which just totally blows my mind.  It's amazing that he's a REAL scientist, and explains why he's such a patient person.


We also ventured down Telepgraph Avenue is pretty cool, similar to 4th Avenue in Tucson.  Tons of coffee houses, restaurants, shops, great books and music stores, tons of street vendors and entertainment.


And as we walked back through the Berkeley Campus, we realized that our trip had come to an end.  It was so fun! Thank you so much Trevor for allowing us to crash at your place and for being such an awesome host! 

 
It took quite awhile to make it back home that night.  Our flight was delayed again for about one hour on the way back home, plus we had another lay over in Ontario again.  (in which a girl was kicked off the plane for smoking in the bathroom~that was pretty exciting)... when we finally got to Phoenix, the pilot couldn't land due to all the lightening...so we ended up in Vegas (which was such a tease because we stared at the strip for quite some time from inside the plane) before finally getting cleared and flew home.  Home Sweet Home ~ who would have thought a trip to California would have required so much travel time.

And this marks off # 17.Visit Trevor in Berkeley










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Happy Fourth!

 


walk around the lake with the pups~visit with granny~firehouse subs~grocery shopping~workout~pool time~visit at tom and mo's place ~watched a few fireworks~hung with tony tuttle~back to our place~cuddle with the little wiener dogs~nice little 4th of July

I'm quite aware of how ridiculous Justin looks in this photos, but it's too funny not to share~along with the precious look on Olive's little face.

P.S. I said this last year, and I'll say it again this year....NEXT year I'm determined to something a little more patriotic next year and hopefully involving a lake or beach. 

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Back to the Grind....

Back from Vacation.......

We had the most amazing time~ just magical.

Highlights Included: 

swimming in the ocean everyday in blue waters and white sparkling sand ~ huevos rancheros~ snorkling~laying out poolside in the morning and in the afternoon~sipping on passion coladas~being asked if we were honeymooners ~great tans~shrimp ceviche~jet skiing~outdoor sunset dinners overlooking Lands End~never knowing what time it was~horseback riding~finding out  justin passed the boards~ parasailing~mexican sweet breads~no emails~live music
~oh the list just goes on and on~

Good times, Great Memories~ Excited to Start the New Chapter




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What's the haps???



Wow.... what in the world ~  for it being summer time, I'm kind of blown away with how busy life has
been the past few months...  

I have tons of fun photos to share but until I can spend a good chunk of time uploading and editing... I thought I'd update you all with some snippets on life...
The Happenings the Highlights.....
July 2011
1.) 4th of July...not too much to report just some fun with few friends
2.) Spent some quality time shopping with my lil mama sita.  She's on a new crazy kick, involving all kinds of little treasures~more on this later
3.) "J.Starr Stylized Weddings" did some venue tours
4.) We flew to Berkeley to visit Trevor and had a blast ~ I just love San Fran, that place has such a unique vibe about it, we had some fun adventures
5.) I won the "Coolest Wife of the Year Award"...being that I went to the Perfect Circle concert with Justin (one of his all time favorite bands)
6.) I got to visit Baby Kayla, Andrea and Jessy's darling little baby girl who had quite the battle in her first few weeks of life ~ but she's recovered beautifully.
7.) Roomie Catch Up with Melissa and Andrea over Greek food followed by Gelato


August 2011
1.) Social Grace Studios snapped some crazy cute photos of Miss Kendall Tuttle (Tony and Jacquie's lil one).  It was the girlyest of photo sessions ever, when you see the photos you'll know how happy Jacquie is to finally have her lil girl after having her two rough and tumble lil boys.
3.) JUSTIN GRADUATED!  Holy cow, it was quite an emotional rollercoaster, but it happened, it really happened. We had an amazing weekend with our family and dear friends.
4.) Lunch date with Jessica Fortman ( a Seville survivor) catching up on old times and discussing  fun plans for the future~ Jess is starting her own accounting business!
5.) FIRST OFFICIAL "J.Starr Wedding" at the Royal Palms with the help of my lovely assistant Melissa Jonovich
6.)  Speaking of Melissa, we celebrated her 30th with her family at her "Retro Glam" Bday Pool Party. Justin and I surprised her with a photo booth, compliments of Social Grace Studios.
7.) Slumber Party with Mom, followed by a day of shopping
8.) Head shots of Jessica for her new business, and family photos of the adorable Fortman Family.
9.) Renata accepted the position of Food and Beverage Director at Superstition Springs!! This is a BIG deal, I'll explain more later!
10.) More family photos, this time of the Pretty Palmer Family.
11.) A Girlie Sleepover over at the Valley Ho Hotel, Celebrating Melissa's Birthday part deux w/ Friends.
12.) Justin shot a Wedding at Anthem Golf and Country Club
13.) My girl Addie Jo turned 30! We headed down to Casa Grande to celebrate w/ her and her family
14.) Followed by a Happy Hour at Canteen the next day on Miss Young's actual b-day with friends


What's on the Horizon....
1.) Justin has to take the boards in the near future, so my house has felt like after school dentention for the past 30 plus days.  This is the last mountain he has to climb before he can start practicing as a Doctor of Physical Therapy..... .. I love my husband with all my heart, but I'm SOOOO ready for his schooling to be OVER.
2.) Thankfully, following this big monster of an exam we'll be flying away to Cabo for 7 days of paradise, we've been looking forward to this time for many many years in the making. 
3.) My little Stinks turns 21!! I can't believe it!! 


My Wheels are Turning About......
1.) "J.Starr Stylized Weddings"... after many discussions with my boss at Superstition Springs, we've come up with a beautiful plan and partnership idea for my company.  All the pieces are finally starting to come together, I'm so excited!  I'll be sure and blog in detail about this soon~ I've learned such an important lesson through this process..... You only live once, chase after your dreams...even if you can't figure out how to make them happen, just keep plugging.... the pathway will work itself out, but don't be afraid to take the first step... I'm really happy, appreciative, and thankful for where I'm at in my life right now professionally ~ I surrounded by happy, positive people...who are aware of my passions, my strengths, and my weaknesses... I have a lot of work ahead...but I'm so darn excited...I feel like I'm riding a carnival ride through the journey. 
2.) I've been working really hard at few my top 101s....and not the easiest of goals, the timely ones....but I'm glad that they're being put into action.
3.) Our 9th Annual Halloween Party....Yahoo!!  Date, Time, Location, DJ, and Theme of all been selected!!  Invites going out soon, SAVE the DATE: Friday October 21st, 2011.

Recent Things I think are Just Plain Cool....
1.)  My smartphone, yeah  I know it's not like the "newest" thing..but wow... that little device can pull my world together so quickly... and hello the Navigation Feature is a life saver!
2.) Venti Ice Waters from Starbucks, they're free and I feel cool drinking them
3.) The Valley Ho, that place is fun....the dj spinning poolside makes you feel like a spring breaker on mtv
4.) The movie..."The Fighter" (it's on netflicks right now) best movie I've seen in awhile
5.) Our upgraded Pandora....no commercials...good stuff
6.) Speaking of music I'm so loving Robin Thicke....he has some sexy, saucy jams... it's really good "getting ready for work music"


Until next time my friends...thanks for reading, thanks for caring... and please update your blogs, call me, or send me an email updating me on your fabulous lives xoxox





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Happy Father's Day to My Dad...

   He's probably the coolest person I know.   When I say "cool", I mean he is actually "cool".  He just "is". 

~ He's incredibly smart, yet doesn't ever feel the need to act like he knows everything
~He reads.... a lot
~ He could care less about expensive things
~He could easily live out in the wilderness and probably be totally comfortable for a good six months
~He speaks with a soft voice when talking to old ladies and little babies 
~He works out almost daily
~He's an amazing artist, just crazy talented
~He calls me "Gorgeous" as if that was the name written on my birth certificate
~He can sing and play the guitar
~ He loves my mom, my brother, my husband, and even my crazy weenie dogs unconditionally

And so long as my mom always picks out his outfits for him...he's just the coolest dad I know. 

On this father's day we all enjoyed some yummy mexican food at Arribas celebrating Dad! 

Happy Father's Day Dad, I Love You!!! 



 


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Mr. Handsome's Birthday

This day was just perfect.... just us
  We celebrated Justin turning 31 by just taking it easy. I took the day off from work, turned my phone off, and just enjoyed time together.....
We spent the morning walking around the lake with Sammy and Olive and walked up on a group of people and their handmade boats.  We enjoyed our cups of joe from good ole Coffee Rush and just did some people watching as Sammy and Olive did some people barking. 
For lunch we thought about trying something "new"...after a failed attempt at Liberty Market in downtown Gilbert, we ended up at Oreganos...and enjoyed  some off the hook bloody marys ~
garnished with a pickle, which was delightful.
Then we relished in some fun in the sun....
The night ended with sushi and sake bombers across the lake and then over to visit Chewy and Boston (if you don't know who they are, come hang out with us soon) ~ we'll introduce you to some of our favorite Anderson Springs Bartenders.

Happy Birthday to my Handsome Husband ~ I Love You.

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Night Out with the Starrs

Just me and "the boys"....

Trevor was in town for the weekend for a reunion with friends... but he kept a night free to hang with us.
It was a chill summer night...starting off with dinner at Dos Gringos in Chandler, moving on to drinks at Tonic, moving on to drinks at Nate's 3rd Base (one of our fav places) and finishing off the night at Native New Yorker. 


 






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Golf Day at Superstition Springs Golf Club

One very hot day in June, Justin hit the course with Matt, Nate, and Matt's father in law ~Fred.  Justin got to experience what it's like to golf at my stomping ground: Superstition Springs Golf Club. 

I've worked at golf courses now for approx 6 plus years and I've never golfed. To be honest, I really don't get it. But for some reason lots of people love it. It is one of my "to dos" on my 101 in 1001, but I'm thinking I'll wait until it's not 100 plus degrees and hopefully make this happen next time my girl Sarah Gillespie is in town.
But nonetheless, on that hot day in June...these guys still had a fun time.
P.S. I get an amazing rate on golf for family and friends..so let me know if you're ever in the mood to hit the greens.
 

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On My Mind Today....

Hello Friends!

Okay, so today has been one of those random days where I have a million things on my mind~it's kind of hard to concentrate.  When I get feeling all crazy like...I like to turn to my blog~ it calms me. 

So here we go:


1.) Thank you, Thank You, Thank You to all of our beloved family and friends who joined us in celebrating Justin's big milestone!  I'm still in a state of shock, I never really thought that we would get to this point.  We looked at each other this morning like...Ummm.... this is awkward, what the heck are we suppose to do now???  But don't get me wrong I couldn't be more proud of my amazing husband....now that he's a Doctor of Physical Therapy.....his "hot meter" goes up a few notches for sure ;) More on this in upcoming blogs for sure!!!


2.) Camp Cabo officially starts today! Remember this post from a year ago?? In an effort in achieving goal number # 95 on my 101 in 1001s, I attempted this last August and after two weeks of pure exhaustion I became discouraged and stopped. But this time around I'm making a few adjustments to this goal to make it more realistic and more achieveable (after all, it's my 101 list, I can adjust as needed:), this time and certain stud has offerered to join me!  So this time around I'm committing myself to "Camp Cabo", working our one hour a day for 5 days a week, for the next four weeks.  We've been averaging 3 times a week for 45 minutes for the past three weeks so this should be totally do-able!  And.... you may be wondering why we're calling it "Camp Cabo"... well you guessed right!  As a graduation gift to the both of us, we're going to CABO BABY for 7 days in a luxury resort for total relaxation time!!!  And of course looking like a hot senorita is the goal!!!


3.)  Attention Fellow Bloggers (if you don't blog, don't read on, it will only confuse you)....

Now that I'm One of Those "Private Blog" People

Add http://justinandjenniferstarrblogupdates.blogspot.com/ to your automatic updater on your blog list.
So this little blog will be public~ I got this very smart idea from Miss Allison!
To keep up with my blog a little better (especially for you non-facebookers) , go ahead and add this to your blog list and I will post on here everytime I update my primary blog.

 Make sense? I hope so, I think I've just confused myself. Thank you for caring and sharing~ I hope even more of my sassy little friends start a blog, it's such a great way to keep up with loved ones in this busy world of ours.





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Mic Check... Anyone Anyone Bueller?

Grrr... I don't do well with change... but I'm not giving up.

Okay, so my precious little blog is now private, but I concerned that my readers aren't able to log on.    So this is a test, if you can read this blog post ~ please give me a shout via commenting below, on facebook, or by email. Thank you very much!!!

 Justin told me he's spending all tomorrow catching up on editting all of our recent photos, so I'll have some fun posts coming soon.


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