"There's no combination of words I could put on the back of a postcard... No song I could sing... But I can try for your heart...Our dreams, and they are made out of real things... Like a, shoebox of photographs... With sepiatone loving... Love is the answer, At least for most of the questions in my heart... Like why are we here? And where do we go? And how come it's so hard? It's not always easy and... Sometimes life can be deceiving... I'll tell you one thing its always better when we're together..."
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Highlight on January 2011

Wow, I just can't believe how far behind I am in blogging.... oh well life's been busy.  The only thing that really bums me out is the longer I wait to blog about life happenings... the fewer amount of details I remember, which makes me sad.  That's why blogging, scrapbooking, and journaling are so important to do as quickly as possible, while every thought, emotion, and feeling is still fresh in your head. 

So.... in an effort to get caught up I'll just blog about little snippets (how cute is that word...snippets?) about life happenings in January of 2011. 

New Year's Day:
Well, after returning home from NYC we were pretty exhausted, too exhausted to even party on New Years Eve... but we did make it to Tommy and Melissa Jonovich's New Years Day Party.  They had asked everyone just to come in their jammies and enjoy a champagne brunch, so comfy and relaxing.....

The Keegans
 
Melissa and her Mom, Tami
The Kinkles
The Jonovichs
Me, Andrea, and Meliss
Following the party we decided to head down to Casa Grande to meet up with Dan, Tiffany, and Ronin Dinneen! I hadn't had a chance to meet little Ronin yet, and I hadn't seen Dan and Tiff in over a year (in fact the last time I saw them was when they told me Tiff was pregnant).  My how time flies.  But anyways, I got to hold Ronin for a long time and catch up with Tiff a bit.  I always hate when my dear friends move out of the state, but I'm thankful that we're able to keep in touch and make the effort to see each other when we can.  Ronin is such a chill little dude, seriously way chill, and just too cute! 
Me, Ronin, and Tiff
Following our Dinneen visit, we headed over to Ma and Pas for a New Years Day dinner.  After having such a rushed holiday season it was nice to finally be able to relax a bit.

Dad's Birthday:
My dad.  He's the most amazing man in the world, I don't think words could ever even begin to describe how much he means to me. For his birthday we headed down to CG for a family dinner at Tommy Bistros followed by cake and gifts back at the house.  I love you dad.
Roomie Holiday Dinner:
Such a fun tradition, that was started many years ago.  My college roommates Andrea, Melissa and myself all get together around the holidays for a special dinner, just us girls.  We always go out to dinner and catch up on holiday stuff and life in general.  It's always a special time, and it's just wild to think about all the different milestones we've gone through in each other's lives. 
Still Life Studios Grand Opening:
My last month working at Still Life, I was able to assist the crew with their big Grand Opening.  It was really exciting and turned out to be quite a success!!!  Such a great accomplishment!!  Special congrats to Matt and Dani!!
Entrance...
Flowers by Crismons
  Do you see me on the ground?  That's right, I put together a contract with a couple in the
middle of the mad house
 ! 
J.Starr Stylized Designs
The Still Life Studios Crew

Just so I don't forget: January was also  filled with The Bridal Fashion Debut, My Interview at Superstition Springs, birthday lunch date with my fab friend Renata, the "Recharge" Event Industry Mixer at Noahs, and some fun Date Nights with the Hubs.

It was busy month to kick off the year!!!

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I'm not the most patient person....

  I could barely sleep last night because I'm so excited about all the great things happening with J.Starr Stylized Weddings!  I'm currently working on so many fun marketing projects including, my Website, my Business Facebook page, my JStarrStyle Twitter Account, my Wedding Wire Account...
all of these little lengthy branding must haves!! 

But what I'm most excited about is: my upcoming one page feature in AZ Weddings Magazine (hitting shelves in June), the upcoming NACE Elements Competition in which I will be competing in, and my newest client who's wedding could possibly take place on Laguna Beach!

Wahoo!! I woke up this morning just spinning and not knowing where to focus...but I was glancing through my planner I saw a quote I wrote down a while back that reads:

"Always remember that the future comes one day at a time" ~Dean Acheson

A great reminder for me to chill out a little bit, and realize that so long as I'm taking actions daily,
 all the puzzle pieces will fall into place.  

Stay tuned... and thank you to my family and friends for the continued support!!



P.S. This is my new logo, designed by one of my favorite valley artists, Tony Tuttle.

P.P.S. What I'm listening to these days??? George Michael...because he's that awesome!!

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NYC at Christmas Time!

Okay so as promised, here are the photos from our New York Trip at Christmas!  As I blogged about before, this post ,shows our experience on actual Christmas Night. 

Thoughts.....
The rest of the photos were taken the days following Christmas.  We woke up on December 26th to snow falling outside our window, my first White Christmas ~and it was amazing!  We took so many fantastic photos it was really hard to narrow down which ones to include in my blog~ so I just picked my favorites.

Looking back at this now, I really realize what a unique experience it was....and little did we know we would be experiencing the Great New York City Blizzard of 2010 ~the perfect storm, pouring over 20 inches of snow into the city.  But it didn't matter to us, we thought it was wonderful. 

The Moments....
These next photos are probably my favorite from the trip.  As we walked through Central Park with the ground covered in snow, everything just seemed very dream like.  I couldn't help but feel such a strong sense of peace in my heart.
Central Park 
The snow just kept falling and falling, in fact at times it was wild because we couldn't even tell where we walking, I almost walked right into a lake.  We practically were the only ones in Central Park.

Museum of Natural History
We somehow ended up at the museum, and it was incredible.  Just the biggest museum I've ever seen, it's nearly impossible to see all of it.
My favorite part of the Museum was the 13 Foot Origami Christmas Tree, a tradition at the Museum for the past thirty years...it was truly mesmerizing in person, I just stared at it forever.
Central Park
And back through the park we go... just unbelievable.
"The Boys"... Trevor, Shannon, and Justin
Heavenly.....
Me and Shannon walking through the silent park.  
By the time we made it back to our hotel we were all frozen...

The next day snow had finally stopped snowing, but the city was still.  There were no cars driving through the streets, no honking taxis, no big red buses...nothing.  I tried hailing a cab with no success ;)
The city was just covered!!  We really got a work out... walking was challenging at times, as snow was up to our knees in most areas. 
So many cars were stuck... and people were shoveling everywhere, all of these business owners trying to clear pathways up to their stores and restaurants trying to invite all of the holiday visitors in. 
Rockefeller Center
So romantic, so classic New York City
Radio City
Wadolf Astrora Hotel
This was one of my favorite moments with my brothers in law and my husband.  Per Trevor's suggestion (he's so fancy) we went to Wadolf Astrora Hotel for drinks (this is where the President stays when he's in the city) and although the bartender was the oldest person in city, and moved very very slow, and one round of drinks was over a hundred bucks, we had fun just being together...all fancy like :)
St Patrick's Cathedral
My mom told me that we had to stop by the St. Patrick's Cathedral... and it was just luminous.  
 We lit a candle for our Christmas Angel. 
Over 150 Years Old....
This photo was taken in the middle of the Cathedral, just to give you an idea of how massive it is.
As the days went by the snow begin to melt and the sun came out....
Empire State Building
We waited our turn to see the view from the top of the Empire State Building...
It was quite astonishing... but it was freezing!!!!!  The wind was out of control, people's hats and gloves where flying off of them.  It was so bone chilling it was almost unbearable, but the boys braved it out long enough for a few photos.  It was sadly not a Sleepless in Seattle moment by any means.  Next time we go back, hopefully there will not be a blizzard going on and we'll go and sunset, so we can watch the city transform into all the bright lights. 
The Soup Man
I actually saw Justin get a little nervous as he ordered.. it was hilarious!!  And the soup was delicious!!!
9/11 Memorial Construction Site
It was quite haunting being in this location and thinking of that horrible day.  It was weird to see all the several surrounding buildings that still stand and think about all people working there now that were working there on 9/11. 
The Statue of Liberty
This was a close as we got to Lady Liberty... it was just so cold and windy...and my boots were soaked at this point, we decided taking the boat over would be a little too much.  So instead we got a close as we could and then found the nearest store to buy me some knee high rubber boots.
China Town
Little Italy
We had a cozy little dinner in the heart of Little Italy~one of my favorite NY spots for sure!!!!
Ed Sullivan Theater
Our hotel was right next to Dave's place, we didn't see Dave but we did stop in to Hello Deli. 
Ameritania Hotel
We stayed in the Ameritatia Hotel, and over all it was pretty nice... except for one incident...
On our second to last night, I was awoken to the sound of a wrapper being crinkled. 
I was half awake and I kept thinking... what is that noise?  Is it Justin, is he eating a granola bar in his sleep or something, I tried shaking him awake.  Then, it hit me!!  I remembered I had eaten a granola bar before I fell asleep and placed it on the night stand ....RIGHT next to my head!!!  Once I figured it out, I was too scared to turn over and look my NYC RAT in the face so, I leaped over Justin in the bed and jumped up on the chair on the corner of the room and then once I was safe, I screamed!!! I screamed loud!! 

Now Justin wears glasses, so he can't really see much without them... so I'm screaming and pointing in the direction of the night stand, and he's just staring at me like I'm crazy.  I can't even get out the words RAT, but eventually he figures out whats going on.  Now, I have to admit... I never actually saw the rat, but I know he was there!!!  After Justin found his glasses I had him search the room high and low and he never found my little "friend", though he did find a rat trap under the bed!!!!!!!!!!!!
 I made sure there was no food in our room anymore, and then I tried going back to sleep complete with my rubber boats on... I just didn't want him to bite my toes!!!
Window Displays
Were just gorgeous, especially Macys!
The last night in the Big City...
Central Park
After breakfast we had some extra time before we had to catch the taxi to the airport, so I talked the boys into one last walk over to Central Park....And we found that the Park had turned into a Winter Wonderland. 
Complete with horses, sun shining on the snow through the tall trees, live music.....
Just the perfect ending to a trip we'll never forget.....
Thank you NYC for a true White Christmas Experience...


And these photos wrap up a difficult year, a bittersweet end to 2010.



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So I Keep Asking My Brother....

  If he'll be my personal assistant for the summer....and he keeps saying no.  Odd??  Doesn't that sound like the funnest job ever??? Ha!!  Apparently not.  I've been having a blast the past five months but I'm so so bummed that I've let my dear blog fall so far behind.  I'm determined to get my NYC Christmas photos edited tonight and posted to my blog tomorrow morning, so hold me to it!! 

This morning started out very early... because sadly we have one car down, so Justin had to drop me off EARLY this morning, but only after he treated me to Starbucks.  So I was able to compile a to do list... and this was the end result, all before I finished my coffee......  

But  80s Pop Radio is rocking on Pandora right now, coffee is kicking in.... let's do this day!



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New Job Update....




 So, I've officially been at my new "day job" just over 2 months now.....
Director of Weddings at Superstition Springs Golf Club

For some reason it feels like I've been here at least 4 months.  Perhaps that's because I'm a freak and I simply refuse to do anything simple. 

Truly I think sometimes it's a sickness I have, give me the easiest task and about five minutes.... and I will surely find a way to overcomplicate it.  I don't like that I'm this way, I just am. 

Want some examples....Okay... I'll give you examples pertaining specifically to this new job: 

 Business Cards:  I couldn't go with the standard "company" card, nope not me... I had to have mine designed specifically for me and wedding specific.

Ballroom Layout:  The ballroom had been set the same way for nearly six years or so.... but I just couldn't get past the layout of the ballroom.  So what did I do?  Changed it... that's right I asked the staff (it took a team of five guys) to disassemble this dance floor and move it ...so that the ballroom looked more visually pleasing depth wise.

Photography/Website: The photos that the club had been using prior to bringing me on board....were..ummm.. to put it nicely... DATED.  So I had my team of amazing photographers come out one night, and I coordinated a Bridal Fashion Photo Shoot.  Complete with borrowed gorgeous gowns, professional hair and make up, beautiful models, rented tables, specialty chivari chairs, and gorgeous centerpieces. 

Magazine Ads:  I just couldn't bare running with the same ads that the club had used before, I had to completly re-do them.

Organization Systems:  Specifically the BEOs (Banquet Event Orders), Master Event Calendars, and Folders/Filing System.... Yep, again.....I'm a freak...all of these things had to be changed too...and they're not simple tasks...plus I had to get the whole team on board

Weekly Open Houses:  Guess what I'm doing every Wednesday night from 5:30~7:30??? I hosting a Bridal Open House.  It's a night were a perspective client can come up a view the venue, meet me, talk pricing, and hopefully fall in love enough to book their wedding here.  We glam it all up...complete with chair covers, centerpieces, candlelight, love songs.

Wedding Packages:  Though I didn't change the menu (you never want to make a Chef mad, trust me...I learned this a long time ago)...I did put together an all-inclusive Vendor Package... I'll call it "Starr Style", because I'm a huge nerd like that...  

My Office: Early next week my office will get a new makeover, complete with new paint, decor, photos, and lighting. 

So, lately I've just felt so exhausted...but now when I step back and think.... I know why......it's because I'm a big freak... and I can't make anything simple.  The staff all seem like they like me, but I'm sure secretly they're all thinking who is the weird girl??? 

Overall though I must say... I'm really happy.  I love this job.  And I'm excited to share more SUPER FUN updates on my "night job" .....JStarr Weddings & Events, stay tuned. 

At this moment, life is good.  I'm hoping that I've gotten all of these changes and projects out of my system for a little while....and maybe one day someone will teach me how to make life simple????
   

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Is Blogging Too Braggy?

I had a great conversation last week with a past co-worker.   She was commenting how much they enjoyed reading my blog and I was encourgaging her to blog.  And her response back to me was... I love your blog, but sometimes when I read other people's blog... I just feel like they're too braggy~and they make life appear all happy and perfect. 

 She nailed it!!! 

That's been my struggle with blogging since the day I started. 

You see, that's the BIG difference between journaling and blogging.  Kind of like the BIG difference between acquaintances and best friends...atleast for me.

I tend to try and steer away for blogging about heartache in my life, things that make me angry, and things that could potentiallly hurt other peoples feelings.... topics of  religion, politics, sexuality, relationship dynamics, and all of thoses other socially taboo topics.  Don't get me wrong I have my down days and very strong opinions but I choose not to share those things on my blog...because it's just too public and those subjects are personal.

Believe it or not.... me (yes me the "showboat", as my mother would say) is for the most part, is really a  private person.  I share my thoughts with my journal (if and when I'm keeping one at the time)....but mostly I share these thoughts, concerns, hard times with my loved ones in a one on one, face to face kind of conversation.

And don't get me wrong, I know several people...who put it out there for the world to see (some of whom I even admire)... I'm just not that gal. 

I guess the point of my blog post this morning to apologize to my readers if my blog ever comes accross "braggy" and cheesy ;)  I treat my blog like my virtual scrapbook for the most part... so that I can look back at and remember great memories.  I know the "storms will always come"...but that's what makes the good times so good... right? 

I've just kind of been pondering this subject for awhile and thought it would make a good blog post, I'm curious to know other's opinions on the topic???



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My heart is happy...

  I had such a great day today....filled with many wonderful conversations with loved ones.  It just blows mind my how just one day in life can change and influence your thoughts on so many things... today was one of those days... a simple day but one that I don't want to forget...

 Today, these are things that made my heart feel happy....

~ Having a Saturday OFF
~The Baby Ducks I saw in the lake this morning
~My adorable husband, even cute when he is sick with the stomach flu
~Iced Coffee on the back porch at Melissa's house this morning and our great conversation
~Driving through the streets of ASU, and being proud to be a Sun Devil....loved seeing all the Pat's Run Participants
~Spending time with my brother
~Seeing my mom's beautiful and happy face
~Red Lobster
~Shopping in thift shops
~Buying 3 books for a dollar: Tuesdays with Morrie, Complete Book of Baby Shower Designs Ideas, and Me, Stories of my Life by Katherine Hepburn
~Buying super cute hair flowers with rhinstones
~Grocery shopping for the week, a day early
~Walking through the dorms at ASU
~Coming home to my loving husband who had recovered from his awful stomach flu
~Dinner at home with my loves, Sammy, Olive, and Justin
~Justin surprising me with these super sassy new collars & tags he had bought for the girls a couple days ago
~I discovered the my phone has this awesome "Speak to Text" option
~Seeing 3 Comments on my last blog post (aren't comments just the best? it's nice to know people care;)

Things I'm excited about this upcoming week:

~Blogging More
~Starting to use my new "Body Bug"!!
~NACE Event " Coming of Ages" at the Millennium Resort
~Melissa, Tommy and Baby G's Photo Shoot
~Spending the night in Casa Grande with the family
~Easter Sunday with the Norris Crew






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Back to Blogging....


Okay, world...I'm back in action!!  The last four and half months have been overwhelming....

By day: I started a new job....and by night: Launched my personal Event Coordination and Design Company, plus dealt with some challenging personal heart tugging situations...But, I'm back a
stronger, wiser, and more organized woman;)

The older I get, the more and more I realize that life if hard.  And just when you think you've got it all figured out...you realize you don't.  I heard a quote once that I just love...
"The older you get, the more you realize, the less you know." 

  And this is why it's important to really cherish all the happy times and endearing moments that do happen in our day to day lifes... and that is why...... I've missed my blogging.

I have so many fun things to share.........including knocking out SIX of my 101s and
getting the works going to knock off a couple more. 

So...cheers to blogging!!! And celebrating the good times and the
many amazing people in my life
 who fill my heart with joy.


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